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Getting Your Message Heard
Good Problem Solving and People Skills



Intro

Part A
Listening


Part B
Body Language


Part C
Verbal Communication


Part D
Problem Solving

Effective Words

Communicating With Parents

Electronic Communication
Part D:  9 Keys to Effective Problem Solving

  • Separate: Separate the facts from the emotion.Outside stress may be responsible for overreactions. Underlying issues, such as basic differences in values, may be overshadowing conflict. Use appropriate listening and communication skills in Parts A, B, and C to calm angry or upset individuals.

  • Focus: Handle the situation and not the person.

  • Identify: Identify the issues that need to be and can be addressed. Acknowledge the issues that are out of your control. Agree to problem-solve what can be changed.

  • Prioritize: Decide which issues are the most important.Deal with one at a time, that which is most irritating first.

  • History: Consider how the problem came about.

  • Brainstorm: Discuss possible solutions and consider their consequences.Stay positive allowing all suggestions to be explored. Refer to Effective Words Working for You.

  • Agree: Agree on a solution.State the goal, plan of action and decide who is doing what, when and how.

  • Thanks: Thank the participants for their time, effort and courtesy in working out the problem. Conclude on respectful terms.

  • Follow up: Agree to touch base as needed. Track the progress of the situation. If your solution is not working reexamine the problem and brainstorm again.

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