Overcoming Common Fears
Help relieve the girls' (and also sometimes the adults') fear by taking time to discuss what to expect on their first overnight experience and the fun they will have.
What to Do:
- Be aware of fears - don't discount anyone's feelings
- Explain about night sounds, like frogs, insects, raccoons, etc.
- Explain where you will be - even in the middle of the night
- Explain the Buddy and Truddy system (see Safety Wise)
- Always have a flashlight when moving around in the dark
- Make sure they can find the bathroom facilities
- Never eat in your sleeping area to help keep critters away
- Plan fun activities - Sing peppy songs, play a game - keep it light, fun and active. Inspire girls to look forward to the activities that tomorrow will bring.
- Say "good night" to each girl individually. This is the time when a friendly smile and a cheerful word mean the most.
- Try to be very aware if anyone is telling scary stories
- If a girl does get scared, calmly take her away from the group and discuss her fear privately.
Fears are contagious.